13 on Thursday

13 Reasons to Clean Out Your Inbox

Confession time… I unsubscribed from 49 newsletters this week. Yeah. 49. Not all of them were my fault (more on that later), but still… it was clogging up my inbox! I was spending 20 minutes a day deleting emails, and I finally decided it would be easier to see what all was actually coming in.

1. You don’t enjoy the emails anymore

It’s okay! You signed up for that really cool webinar, but now you just don’t jive with that speaker anymore. It happens, and it’s okay. Unsubscribe.

2. You didn’t mean to sign up for them specifically

You signed up for a giveaway, thinking you’d be put on 1 person’s newsletter…. but you got added to 17 people’s newsletters. Booooo. Unsubscribe from everyone you don’t care about.

3. You sign up for that many newsletters

You signed up for that one guy’s newsletter, but wow… you got added to 4 of his lists. Unsubscribe from the one’s you didn’t care about… it’s totally okay!

4. You didn’t sign up for that many emails

When you signed up, it was once a week, but now she blogs daily (and doesn’t have a digest option). If you love her, set aside time to read it with a cup of coffee, and make it a treat rather than a chore.

5. You need to get  more stuff done

Whoa. No one can keep up with that much email, and you’ve got that new project you’re excited about. Purrrrrrrrrrge!

6. You moved (and it was a local biz)

Yeah. It happens. I’m moving in March, and I didn’t think that would be happening anytime soon.

7. Your niche (or theirs) changed

Yup. This happens too. I’ve recently shifted from doing VA work, so not everyone wants to be on my list anymore, and that’s okay!

8. You need room for more emails

Okay, I’m joking… maybe. It depends on how you have your email set up. If it’s all on the server, and you’re just reading… it’s just visual clutter. If you’re downloading them from the server… yikes!

9. You scare your type-A friends

Okay, I’m only half joking on this one. I have been known to have a figurative heart attack upon seeing an inbox with over 10K emails in it. Unread. With dust on them. And mold. Poor, sad, lonely, graveyard of abandoned emails.

10. You might be overlooking important emails in the chaos

Truth. My Mom has even mentioned accidentally overlooking something she needed, because there was too much going on in her inbox. And if you run a business, sometimes that equals loss of money, or a missed opportunity. Don’t become a cautionary tale for future entrepreneurs. Don’t do it!

11. “She doesn’t even go here!”

Okay, sorry… Mean Girls reference… seriously though, if you haven’t worked with that client in 2 years… probably safe to get rid of most of those emails. If you handle work like photography, or graphics, perhaps keep their work + contracts in a Dropbox folder, and then delete the emails.

12. It’s not Christmas anymore

Seriously. If it’s a sale from even 2 weeks ago, probably safe to assume those items are no longer on sale…. and may not even be available at all!

13. You don’t want to miss that fab sale from DSW!

Okay insert your store of choice here. I happen to adore boots, so I get excited when the fall sales at DSW start hitting my inbox. I also get excited for Sephora emails, ELF emails, and thanks to my friend April… Anthropologie emails. My friends are bad influences. 😀

Did you know I wrote a sanity-saving guide to cleaning up your inbox? 


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13 Things I Love About August

1. American Indian Heritage Month

A great number of people can claim Native heritage in the US, but we actually have very specific information on ours. My great-grandfather was full-blood Cherokee… again, a good many people have Cherokee heritage. The one that I geek out over is on my Mom’s side. Our family back a few generations were Parkers. 1836 in Texas, there was a Comanche raid on Fort Parker and a young Cynthia Ann-Parker was taken. Cynthia was later married to a chieftain, and they gave birth to a boy named Quanah. Quanah was one of the last Comanche chiefs, and has a town in Texas named for him as well.

2. National Breastfeeding Month

I’m a huge advocate for breastfeeding your child, if possible. I could go on about the virtues of it, but I feel like they’re pretty well established, so I’ll just say this. As much as I stand for breastfeeding, I’m also very much against the mom-guilt-trips that people go on. Sometimes, breastfeeding comes with complications. I’ve watched a friend of mine go to the hospital 2-3 times now, for severe mastitis. I’ve dealt with plugged ducts… I managed to get past/through it, but it wasn’t pleasant. Some people struggle to establish a supply, and if it gets to that point, it’s better to find an alternate than to deprive your child for the sake of pride.

Me in my Air Force blues
Me in my Air Force blues


3. US Air Force Day

August 1st many moons ago, I left Dallas for San Antonio and began my military experience. Unbeknownst to me, my first day was acutally the Air Force’s anniversary. The Air Force as we know it was created in the month of September, but the Aeronautic division of the Army Signal Corps was started August 1st.

4. National Chocolate Chip Day

August 4th – Not cookies, not ice cream… no specifics… just chocolate chip. Go crazy my friend!

5. National Root Beer Float Day

August 6th – What’s your favorite brand of  root beer?

6. Dalek Day

August 8th – The birthday of Terry Nation, creator of Daleks. If you don’t know what these are, we can’t be friends. Just kidding. Maybe.

7. Lefthander’s Day

August 13th – I’ve always been fascinated by the number of extremely creative people that are left handed… quite a number of them are multipassionates too.

  • Lady Gaga
  • Oprah
  • Tina Fey
  • Jimi Hendrix
  • Marilyn Monroe
  • Michelangelo
  • David Bowie
  • Mark Twain
  • Leonardo da Vinci
  • Beethoven
  • Mozart



8. Bowling Day

August 13th (left-handed bowling, anyone?)I love going bowling… it’s not anything I’ve ever done very often, and not often enough to warrant buying a custom ball… but I have dreamed about it. My kids really enjoy bowling too, and last year we got to discover the joy of cosmic bowling!

9. Bad Poetry

August 18th – This is one of my favorites!

10. International Tongue Twisters Day

August 20th – I found a website full of twisters… in multiple languages! Warning… the background is dreadfully bright.

11. According to Hoyle Day

August 29th – I see so many kids these days stuck on their tablets, phones, and laptops… or planted in front of video games. When I was growing up, my Mom had According to Hoyle and I wanted to learn to play every single one of them… and it’s not a small book. It contains many card games, as well as their variations. I want my kids to grow with a love for card games too… not just Old Maid, or Slapjack, but classics like Canasta, Pinochle, etc.

12. & 13.  My brother & I share a birthday this month! I won’t tell you when his is, but mine is the 18th! 😉 


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13 Ways to Build Creativity in Your Kids

I was originally going to go into depth on these… but then I realized I’m very passionate about this, and it would turn into quite a lengthy post. So, look out for 13 posts (1 on each topic) going into more detail about this. 🙂 If you don’t want to miss any of these posts, you can subscribe up top, or stalk my FB page.

1. Don’t put unnecessary limitations on them.

2. Create an art box.

3. Don’t pressure them to live out your dreams.

4. Have multi-use toys.

5. Expose them to creativity in various forms.

6. Discourage boredom (but don’t fill their time either).

7. Teach your child that creativity lives beyond most people’s boxes.

8. Discourage perfection (yes I said it).

9. Don’t make comparisons between them and their siblings (or friends).

10. Raise them to believe that you can make a living with art.

11. But remind them that it doesn’t have to be monetized.

12. Encourage silliness (and play silly games)!

13. Be creative around them.


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13 on Thursday: 13 Reasons I’m Excited About My New Erin Condren Planner

Recently I purchased my very first Erin Condren planner, and I posted on social media about it. Instantly I had people commenting to tell about why they love it, and how much it was going to rock my world. I’ve gotta tell you, I’ve had it just a few days, and I’m already pretty stoked!


1. It comes in a pretty box

Forgive the smudgies… it did come through the mail, which tends grime things up a bit. But isn’t it nice getting pretty mail? I love any company that makes me happy before opening their stuff… like Ipsy* or Photojojo.

2. Great customer service

I’d heard that there are bonuses that they give to first time orders… but I signed up on her list ages ago, and no longer have my code. So I emailed them, and within 24 hours they’d already gotten back to me with the info I needed.

3. Arrived reasonably quickly

I used to hear horror stories about how long it would take to arrive. Apparently that is no longer the case, unless you’re ordering from overseas. Yay!


4. It’s got my name on it

There’s just something about personalized items…

5. And a pretty cover (that I picked)

Isn’t that lace pretty?

6. You can switch covers

Not that I really think I will, but it’s nice to know I have the option. 😀


7. It came with pretty stickers

I love that it even comes with a sticker to remind you to vote… it’s a patriotic planner! 😀

8. You can order more stickers on Etsy

Go type Erin Condren stickers into the search box of Etsy, and you’ll be met with a smörgåsbord of options. Look out for an upcoming post where I tell you what I settled on!

9. You can pick between colorful pages or black & white

I went with black and white, because I know that between stickers, gel pens, and washi tape, I’ll have plenty of color in there. But if you prefer to have a color background, and write in black, they’ve got that option too!


10. It has inspirational watercolor-style pages

I love this so much…. any planner that has pretty little pick-me-ups through out it, will definitely grab my attention. It’s one of the things that drew me to Happy Planners too!

11. There’s a big community on Instagram

Okay this is a more minor benefit, but still… when you post pics to Instagram, it’s nice to know that there are thriving hashtags in place.

12. There’s a monthly calendar AND a weekly 2-page spread

I love the ability to write my very “at a glance” sort of things in the month, and then dive into the details for the week!


13. Plenty of writing space

I love that it has lots of room to write, and the paper is thick enough that I can use gel pen. I have run into issues with that, in other planners.

And now for the fun part!


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13 on Thursday: 13 New Changes to Cheeky Visionaries

Back in the day, I had no business… just a regular old ordinary blog. Okay just kidding. Nothing I do is ordinary (bwahaha), but I did have a blog.

One of my favorite things about blogging back then, was blog memes. Now when you say “meme” most people picture Ryan Gosling saying “Hey girl“. But for those of us bloggers, a meme referred to a themed post with a linkup. Like “Wordless Wednesday” were everyone would post just a photo.

One of my favorites was Top 10 Tuesday. But after a while, the host turned it over to another blogger, who later teamed up with another blogger, who later took it over… and now it solely exists in the realm of homeschool bloggers.

And while I DO homeschool, I don’t want to ONLY make lists of homeschool stuff. So I looked. There are a few Top 10 variations, but they’re mostly hosted by book bloggers (look for that to reappear on my book blog The Well Read Unicorn).


So here we are… after chatting with my Mom, and a few other souls who remember the good-ole days (and I can say that! I’ve been blogging since LiveJournal…. ooooooh!), I decided to start my own, 13 on Thursday. This also gave me the kick in the pants to finalize some changes I’ve been working on around here.

1. Fresh new look to the site…

  • Tweak on the colors
  • New, airier theme
  • More room for my photos 🙂

There’s still a few kinks to work out, but it’s a start!

2. Virtual assistance has been removed from my services

At least for now… I’ve got a full VA roster at the moment, so a waitlist will be created soon, in case I add more clients down the road. But for now, my focus will be on supporting creative mamas who are ready to conquer the world.


3. More geekiness

It’s a well established fact, that I relish the worlds in geek-dom… Firefly, Doctor Who, Star Trek, Star Wars, Stargate, (but no BSG). But it’s not something that gets referenced all that often on my blog. No more! I will be letting my pop-culture flag fly high, and feeling free to drop references to the books, movies, and shows that capture my affection.

4. More short posts

Most of my peeps are busy. Mama, entrepreneurs… heck just being a woman is busy. And I’m aware that you/we/I don’t always have time to devour a super-long post, so stay tuned for a better mix of posts, including some video, some longer-form, and some shorter ones.

5. More sassafrass

Despite having the word “cheeky”, I’ve been afraid to let too much snark fly. I’ve seen some bloggers fly straight over the line of sarcasm/sass, right over into territory that I find to be inappropriate. So I shied completely away from being cheeky, because I was afraid of being classed with bloggers like that.

But here’s the deal… my personality type is snarky (INTJ), I’m snarky, and my some of my favorite comedians have a very dry/wry sense of humor (Jim Gaffigan being high on the list). But don’t worry, you won’t find me talking about my sex life (ever), or joking about my kids being a-holes (seriously!?), or bombing my posts with strong language.

6. No more comments about me being an INFP

You may have noticed above, that I referenced being an INTJ. We figured out that I had been mistyped… there were some facets of INFP that were very much me (now we know it’s where the IN part is), but as my sister likes to point out… I’m very judgey. Not in a “judgemental” sense (something many people misunderstand about the J part of MBTI), but more in a “I make instant assessments”. J’s are also the listy/planny people… 😀

Actually, hilariously enough, when I was re-testing, and questioning if I’m “truly” a list person (because I don’t always remember to use my to-do lists), my sister pointed out that I have an Evernote list of the MBTI types of other members of our family. Ha!

7. Less “business with a blog”, more “blog with a business”

I love the more personal feel that mom-bloggers, craft-bloggers, etc., and I want to evoke that feel on here. So yes, I will still have coaching, ebooks, etc., but it won’t take up the majority of my blogging/social media/networking time.


Flower and brushes

8. More peeks into my creative side

I have a vast array of creative pursuits, which very rarely make appearances on here. But I don’t just work with creatives… I’m a creative soul too! I love seeing what other people are up to, so I’m hoping you feel the same way. 🙂 And I’m taking a class on a new creative skill, I’ll share the deets here, so you can join me if you like!

9. Change to coaching style

Previously, I’ve done a monthly group coaching program, and one-on-ones… my one-on-ones were just for general creative coaching, or general business coaching.

Coming soon: I’ll be opening up limited time slots for very niched coaching (such as: creating systems to prepare your business to take on a virtual assistant). For any group programs, I’m looking at more of 1x virtual workshop feel, as opposed to monthly programs. We can dig in as a group on another (specific) topic, and have fun!

I adore monthly programs, but as a mom of 5 kiddos, I was running myself ragged trying to keep up with all of it. So I’m creating programs that will work better with my crazy life, and hopefully better with your crazy life too! 🙂

10. More community building

Coming soon: Interviews, features, and guest posts! I want to build a tight community of creatives, and shine a light on the amazing things you’re doing out there!

11. More about running a biz with kids

This is probably one of the biggest questions I get… how do you run a business with 5 kids?… especially when they find out that we homeschool too. I’m not super-woman I swear, but I have been fairly quiet about this aspect. Mostly out of the assumption, that it wouldn’t make a very interesting topic… but it’s my life! Plus, I think it would be helpful to other mamas, if I drop the curtain, and remove the mystery from this aspect of my business.

12. More about my kids in general

So it may have been mentioned a time or two in this post… but I have 5 kids. They are (obviously) a HUGE part of my life… but again, I’ve shied away from really talking about my kids. But then a business friend of mine (shout-out Mayi) mentioned that she loves my Facebook posts about my kids.

I know a lot of people who think kids are boring, but they’re anything but… my 3 year old has said things that have had be laughing my face off. Even my husband, who’s not very active on social media, will frequently say “that’s totally going on Facebook, isn’t it?”

So watch out for wackiness from my kidlets, cause they’re a hoot, and with all the crazy in the world, we could all use a laugh, right?


13. This feature…

It’s a party, and you’re invited! Each week, pick a topic, and post about 13 things related to the topic of your choice: 13 jobs I’ve had, 13 things no one knows about me, 13 of my favorite books, 13 things I loved when I was 13… anything! The only thing I ask, is that you keep it PG. 🙂

Then you just come here, and add it to the linky! <3

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